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Who’s Carrying What? Mental Load Splitter
Chores are visible. Ownership is not. Map the invisible stages behind family life and see where complete responsibility is actually sitting.
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Who’s Carrying What? Mental Load Splitter
For each responsibility, choose who notices, plans, does, remembers and follows up. Your result estimates each person’s share of the invisible load.